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Friday, July 5, 2019

WE DIE HERE…



Water don pass garri o. Most times I wonder why and how on earth a perfect gentleman like me became a Nigerian. I’m sure many of you are still in Wonderland about this too, but please don’t go and price sniper o – we all die here. Anyway sha, I’m so loving the thrills and frills that come with being a citizen of Naija. A country made up of people with different shades and drama that reverberates like a clanging cymbal.
It is only in this country that somebody will post something educative and inspiring on social media and get only 5 likes contributed by 3 good family members and 2 loyal friends. But post gossip matters and boom! You will get 15k likes, 150k comments, 500k shares. Worse still you will get more “social media haters” and “pepper dem gang” friends. Then a group of
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 small girls with a big God looking like maps after several encounters with bleaching cream will be there envying you especially if your post is about a recent achievement. This one is a very serious it is a gen-gen something o! It is now even worse na sef; it’s now one week, one trouble – from rape then ruga to now senator slappy slappy. I tire sef for these wahalas walai!

Lemme advice you na but you wee say I did not teh you, if you don’t want to buy original fake things, then avoid looking at things when using public transport. Yes o, you wee see one somebody selling Apple phones and laptops, and they will boast they ordered it directly from Steve Jobs, the brain behind the inventions. Buy it and sorry will be your name. Nonsense and ingredients! Me sef I tire for you that even thought of buying it. Abi you don’t have sense or are you a yahoo person?

Then you wee see people selling the national lunch-pack of every Nigerian – Gala and Lacasera. The way these sellers will pursue after your bus if you tell them you want to buy will make you wonder why Naija is yet to produce an athlete as good as Usain Bolt. It’s not our concern sef. After buying, it is either the gala is expired or the lacasera is not full (maybe the seller drank it to use it to press conscience).

 Anyway sha this is what makes this country sweet sef. All these drama will make you forget that there is hardship in the country. Finally there’s no place like home.
Enjoy my contri pipo till next time we meet. My name na Obichi

AGONIZED



Masked evil from blood-sucking schemers
Hell is the end, but it will never get better
We sold our rights to heavyweight bandits just to make ends meet
It was a means to an end, but now all we get are evil deeds
Our democracy has been raped; our walls of our hearts have been broken
There’s no peace in our settlements because our territories are about to be stolen by total strangers
Frustration on our minds that make our hearts beat faster
We are ready to die to have our freedom quicker
Our desire for a better future seems like a long-distant journey with no destination

Blood and Mourning, wailing and crying in the streets
Our hurts bear pains, yet they don’t care about how we feel
An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, it’s a sad story we will have to tell someday about how we lived
We are own enemy, the ones we never want to meet at ungodly hours.

CAREER GROWTH: WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR CAREER PROSPECTS




Why do most people always feel happy on weekends when they don’t have to be at work? What’s the reason for peoples’ lack of productivity in their workplace? Why do some people seemingly look like square pegs in round holes in their jobs or in the course of study? The answer is not far-fetched; the reason is because they have little or no knowledge on the essence of Career Prospecting. A Research was conducted in the year 2000 at University of Ibadan, Nigeria. It was also revealed that 236 Graduating Medical students were asked this question: “If given a second opportunity, would you study medicine again? Interestingly, 24 percent said they would still study medicine, while the remaining 76 percent said they wouldn’t. Come to think of it, they all were already medical doctors. The 76 percent group might just have been influenced by pressures from family, peers, or being enticed by the prestige and honour accorded to medics. Just like them, more people are making the same mistake studying and working in career they have ability for. According to the Bureau of Labour Statistics, the average person spends 8.8 hours per day at work which is a little above 9,000 per hours per year which equates to one-third of your life. This much time cannot be given to a job or spent on career that won’t guarantee or give you life fulfillment. Everything is made clearer and better with the right knowledge of Career Prospecting.

WHAT IS CAREER PROSPECTING
There’s a popular saying that “you don’t test deep waters with both feet”. That is absolutely right. Before you think of studying a course or charting a career, then you need to first do your findings. This will give you the required knowledge on what exactly you are committing yourself into. To have a broader understanding of what Career Prospecting is all about, first let’s define both terms.

What is Career?
There are a lot of definitions of Career, but here’s my definition:

“A career is a profession, calling or field of endeavour for which someone trains and considerably undertakes as a means of earning a living or as one’s life work - as a means of fulfilling purpose.”
According to Wikipedia; the online encyclopedia, the word “career” ultimately originates from the Latin word “carrus” which means “wheeled vehicle”. In other words, a career is a vehicle that helps one progress in life through training and experience.

What is Prospecting?
The word “prospect” is from the Latin word “prospectus” which means “a view or outlook”

This means “Career Prospecting” has do with taking a good view on which field of endeavour, profession or calling has the best possibilities for you.

With theses definitions in mind, it is much easier to understand the whole essence of Career Prospecting. But for further understanding, and to also help you make the right choice in order to aid your career growth, you need to identify the ways you can go about finding the prospect of any career.


Here are three (3) ways you can do so:

1.    DO A SELF-EVALUATION

It is said that first and best victory is to conquer self. The right way to do is to be ypur own critic. Don’t get me wrong, doing self-evaluation doesn’t mean that you are not good enough or that you should be harsh on yourself. But rather it is about knowing your ability by getting an honest feedback via evaluation tests. You can solicit for some constructive criticisms from honest friends too. I also recommend you do a Personal SWOT Analysis. Through this, you are to discover your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats. This becomes more helpful as it will help to be able to align yourself with the career opportunities that suit your analysis. More so, if you are currently working, it will help to communicate your current state of mind, and help you create an action-plan to improve your workplace performance.

2.     BE ON A LIVE UPDATE

The world is gradually moving from the Industrial age to the Information age. So, the need to be on a live update is very expedient. It is often said that a man is either old or young at 80 or 20 if he keeps learning or if he stops learning. The decision to learn, unlearn and relearn is very essential in Career Prospecting. Whether you are a fresher, an entrepreneur or an engaged worker, it pays to be armed with current information in your industry, and potential career. Magazines, news sites, and blogs can all help you become a master in your chosen field and propel your career forward. Being able to know and share recent trends and findings from a career-minded standpoint show you have a growth mindset.     

3.    NETWORK
No one is self-made because no man is an island. We all need the input of others in what we do in order to become who we desire to be. There are countless times I made and also received referrals in my workspace. Building meaningful relationships that can sharpen your professional sensitivity; enhance what you do; and take you beyond the boundaries of mediocrity is very important for personal success. By building and sustaining professional social networking profiles, seeking mentorships, attending seminars and workshops, and participating in forums, you sure increase your chances of creating powerful connections that can boost your career prospects. Get to know the best people in your field of endeavour, study their success secrrtes and if possible build a relationship with them. The Law of Attraction says thatLike begat like”. Be nice and do yourself the favour.

Cheers!

By: Nwosu J. Obichi

CAREER LEADERSHIP: 5 LEADERSHIP SKILLS YOU NEED FOR CAREER ADVANCEMENT




The difference between a successful career person and a mediocre is leadership. Possessing good leadership skills can help you make the quantum leap from mediocrity to significance in your workplace. The key to being an influential figure in your profession is by developing leadership skills that can position you for opportunities that will change your life. The Pareto Principle states that 80 percent of professionals in any field of endeavour will enjoy 20 percent in any field of endeavour, while 20 percent of professionals will enjoy 80 percent benefits in any field of endeavour. Obviously, you’ll agree with me that enjoying 80 percent benefit is bigger and better. So, your number one goal is to be in the top 20 percent in your profession. You can achieve this by developing leadership skills that will accelerate you to the top.

Here are 5 key leadership skills that can advance your career:

   1.   PROBLEM-SOLVING/CRITICAL THINKING
To be influential in your profession, then you need to be a critical thinker. Good career leaders are able to foresee potential problems before they occur. Also, they also identify solutions to these problems so as to prevent the damages these problems might try to create. Another important critical thinking ability of top career leaders is that they look out for potential opportunities and take full of advantage of them to benefit their organizations and the people in their workspace. They have an ability to have things under control by proffering solutions to the needs of their workplace.
   
    2.   LEARNING AGILITY
The ability and willingness to learn is an important quality of career leaders. As a person aspiring to be one, you need knowledge to be able to give direction to others. A Study by the JJHournal, learning aGility and leadership competence are positively correlated. It also revealed that with regards to career growth, employees with remarkable learning ability received higher compensation over a ten-year period compared to those with low learning agility. Leadership Expert, John C. Maxwell once said: “Show me a reader, and I’ll tell you a leader.” You cannot diffuse learning from leadership, and vice versa.

    3.   INNOVATIVE THINKING
Leadership and innovation are like Siamese twins. Being innovative can help you lead positive changes in your workplace. Innovative leaders create new ideas can transform the fortunes of their organizations, manage change through out-of-box solutions at can still make their organizations competitive and profitable. Innovative career leaders take on the responsibility of making their organizations make the quantum leap from good to great with their exceptional ideas.  


    4.   GOOD COMMNICATION SKILLS
Good career leaders know how to communicate their ideas to other people. This means working on various ways you can make people understand the message you’re intending to pass cross to them in a simple and effective way. You can improve your communication skill through the following ways:
·       Paying attention to your speech by avoiding grammatical blunders, controversial statements that could send negative vibes.
    ·       Actively listening to people with rapt attention when they speak.
   ·      Taking classes in public speaking and speech presentations is a no-brainer.
   ·   Taking note of key points when communicating with people is important as it shows you value them and their opinions.

You can be a great communicator if you can consciously and intentionally work on improving your communication skills.

    5.   RELATIONSHIP BUILDING SKILL
Good career leaders have the ability to building powerful and meaningful relationships with people. They do so by listening to people and communicating their ideas to them. They take out time to understand and help people become better. It is often said that leaders must first touch the heart, before they can ask for a helping hand. If you desire to be a successful career leader, then you need to be empathetic towards people which mean you need to develop your emotional intelligence. Help them to modify their weaknesses and magnify their strengths.
To join the conversation, give your opinions or ask questions in our comments zone.
Cheers!