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Wednesday, February 27, 2019

DEMOCRACY IN PIECES


Crossed cables in my mind loose connections in my body
Loose connections in my body
My heart aches for our failing values
Cold deaths of our very own by our very own
Vampiric appetite by desperate megalomaniacs
Shedding innocent blood for their own selfish gains
To them it's all or nothing with no empathy for the masses
The pain they feel is so excruciating as they can do absolutely nothing
All in the name of democracy; more of a curse than a blessing.


The people are wailing, their rights have been deprived
Gunshots in their barracks have aroused fear in their hearts
Their walls have been broken and their voices silenced
Life is no longer at ease as their lives are at risk
What do we tell our children unborn about our country?
What can we say about our democracy?
Do we still want to continue with this living nightmare?
Denials and betrayals, it has always been a false dawn for us
Traumas we have left behind and never want to experience ever again

Tuesday, February 26, 2019

HOW TO BOOST SALES 2: UNDERSTANDING THE SALES PROCESS


Every sales process is a product of a strategic plan. Designing and using a sales model is essential if you are to make a breakthrough in selling your products and services. This is where understanding of the sales process becomes expedient. Making giant strides in sales is a possibility, but only if the right moves are being made. When the right moves are made, then right results come along. Understanding the sales process is important because it helps you to know and identify the right model to apply in order for you to make your big break. Another variation from the Pareto principle which I strongly believe states: “The top 20 percent of salespersons in every field earn 80% of the money.”
The big question now is: what are the stages in a sales process that if rightly followed can yield the results you desire?
STAGE 1 - GET THE CUSTOMER’S ATTENTION
Every successful sales process begins with getting the attention of the customer. This has to be done intentionally. The first win is to get the customer/prospect to listen to what you want to say about your product or service. The best way to do this is by presenting an idea or asking a question aimed at selling a specific benefit that the customer needs or by intimating the customer on what your product or service represents and how it can meet his/her need(s).

STAGE 2 - GET THE CUSTOMER INTERESTED
Every successful process demands that you arouse the interest of the customer in your product or service in order to experience a breakthrough. You can get the customer interested in your product or service by intimating him/her on the features of your product and service and by also explaining how your product or service can improve the life, business or career of the prospect.

STAGE 3 – GET THE CUSTOMER’S BUYING DESIRE AROUSED
Every successful sale process requires attention to details in intimating the customer/prospect about the benefits of your product and service. You can achieve this by explaining to him/her on the benefits of your product and service and how it can be valuable to them.

STAGE 4 - GET TO CLOSE THE SALE
Every successful sales process is dependent on the persuasive effort in closing the sale. This can be achieved by persuading the customer/prospect via call-to-action. This means making him/her to make a definite buying decision to take your offer.

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SELF-EDUCATION (2): 5 WAYS TO EDUCATE YOURSLEF


The difference between greatness and mediocrity is habit. Great people have a habit and so do mediocre. Every habit delivers results. One of the habits of great people is that they devote their time, energy and resources to developing themselves via self-education, while a mediocre majors in minor things that bring little or no value to his life. I strongly believe that the reason why someone is better than you is because the person is doing what you are not doing. The path of self-education is the road best travelled by those who want to be great. Greatness is not accidental; it requires deliberate actions taken in a desired direction. If you desire to be great then follow the path of educating yourself intentionally. Motivational Speaker and Author, Jim Rohn once said: “Formal Education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.” Self-education is very beneficial if it is intentional, purposeful and resourceful. Here are ways you can educate yourself.
1. BE ON A LIVE UPDATE – BUY AND READ GOOD BOOKS:
One way you can self-educate yourself is to buy and read good books. If you aspire to reach the zenith of your career, live to reach your maximum potentials and be successful, and then you’ll need to make reading a lifestyle. Leadership Expert, John C. Maxwell once said: “Show me a reader and I’ll tell you a leader”. You cannot divorce leading from reading. The best leaders in any field are those that commit to intentional studying of good books and have made it both a habit and a priority. There are many free online websites where you can download and read books for free. Many people give the excuse of saying that reading is boring. Writer, Mark Twain had this to say: “A man who does not read is the same as a man who cannot read.” Remember, you can only be as good as the information you have within and at your disposal.
2. EXPLORE THE BENEFITS OF E-LEARNING
Today, it is very much easier to learn something new and even bag a degree in a particular field all thanks to e-learning. Many reputable institutions are offering free online courses on websites like Udemy, Coursera, edX, Learn for Nigeria and other popular websites. Harv Eker, The Author of the best-selling book: “The Secrets of the Millionaire Mind advised; “It is not enough to be at the right place and at the right time. But be the right person at the right place and at the right time”. If you want to be the right person and also be different from the other learners, and even among your peers, then you can do well to explore the benefits of e-learning by studying courses or bagging certifications for free online.
3. LEARN FROM DIFFERENT MEDIUMS:
It is advisable that you gain knowledge from different mediums. You can by reading relevant articles on blog sites, attending seminars, watching TV documentaries, and doing a research on your niche or area of interest. Don’t limit yourself to a single source of knowledge and do well to practice what you learn. It is expedient to note that knowledge is vital, but applied knowledge is power.
4. JOIN ONLINE COMMUNITY OF LEARNERS:
The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. So it is with people who have a strong appetite for knowledge. Like magnet, they attract each other and connect without much fuss. If you feel bored about learning in isolation, there’s good news for you. You can join the online community of learners. Developments in technology has created different social media platforms on which people can interact as well as share their thoughts and ideas about a whole lot of things.
5. MENTORSHIP/GOOGLE SEARCH:
Without a doubt a person can learn a whole lot from meaningful conversations, but also finding people who are experts in your areas of interest and niche can actually be helpful in your quest to gain knowledge. Good mentorship is also another valuable way of educating yourself. Also, you can do use the Google search engine to explore and get regular information on your niche and areas of interest.

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Thursday, February 7, 2019

TOP 10 BEST HONEYMOON DESTINATIONS IN NIGERIA


Honeymoon is always a beautiful moment for lovebirds that are intending to get married. Calendar dates are being marked for this love rendezvous. There are usually the butterflies in their tummies and they just can’t seem to take away the smile on their faces as they prepare to share love and enjoy quality time with each other. While many intending couples look to leave the shores of the country to enjoy their moments, on the flip-side they also haven’t realized that there are mind-blowing, lovely and serene destinations in Nigeria that can make their world go round.

We’ve come up with ten (10) romantic destinations where they can have a perfect honeymoon getaway.

  1. OBUDU MOUNTAIN RESORT
This is also known as Obudu Cattle Ranch. It is an amazing love paradise for newly-weds. Its beautiful scenery can spark up the flames of love between lovebirds as they can decide to take long romantic walks. This is also a perfect bedding ground for newlyweds to have fun time by engaging in several outdoor activities such as golfing, hiking, horseback riding and bird watching. Their home-feel of African styled huts or chalets on stilts which serves as accommodation and also warm night experience by fireside during cool months can be romantic for couples as cling to each other. Another top-of-the-list feature is that their cuisine is f\really great. It’s quite a beautiful ambience to say the least. This resort can be found in Cross River State, Nigeria.

  1. EPE RESORT AND SPA
This is top secret for the men – tell your woman that you’re taking her to spend honeymoon at this resort place and watch her be over the moon with real excitement. This resort can be found in Lagos State, Nigeria. You and your partner can enjoy spa treatments, pool relaxation and enjoy romantic dinners at the in-house restaurants all with top quality services at your disposal. With a serene environment that can make boast of tropical gardens, simple bungalows and with stylish rooms that have a blend of traditional design and contemporary art and I’m quite sure you just don’t want to imagine alone. Experiencing it is the best word as this place is synonymous with going to Wonderland.

  1. IKOGOSI WARM SPRINGS RESORT
This is another soul-bonding resort place that can be found in Ekiti State, Nigeria. It surely ticks every box in terms of being the perfect honeymoon destination especially for newly-weds who have a love for adventure and nature. It’s incredible landscape views, the wonders of rock formation and more eye-catching the conflux of warm springs and cold springs.

  1. LE MERIDIEN IBOM GOLF RESORT
This another tourist resort place for newly-weds to have the fun time of their lives during honeymoon. It can be found in Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria. Couples can enjoy the most delicious tasty meals and also a perfect natural feel from the flourishing palm forest that can keep them going while playing golf. This resort place is full of romantic discoveries and adventure. A blend of beauty

  1. MICCOM GOLF RESORT
This resort is located in Osun State. It is another amazing getaway for newly-weds who are looking to have a quiet rendezvous. This is the only private golf resort in Nigeria. Its lush-green vegetation creates a perfect love-garden for lovebirds to engage in love whispers and meanderings. I call this resort a honeymoon place for natural wonder.
  1. KAMPE IKARE
This is quite a natural resort place to give your lover an unforgettable honeymoon experience. Its attractive panorama of white sand and glittering sea as well as its attractive and beautiful landscape view makes it a beauty to behold. The truth is that if you haven’t been there, you haven’t seen anything yet.

  1. ZENABABS HALFMOON RESORT
This resort can be located in Ijesha, Osun State. It is an exotic and luxurious resort surrounded by beautiful natural resources and magnificent landscape views. The soothing appeal of this resort makes it an exciting and romantic honeymoon destination for thrills and chills between lovebirds.


  1. LA MANGA LUXURY VILLAS
Spending your honeymoon in La Manga Beach Resort is like living in paradise. It’s beautiful scenery is a romantic place for lovebirds and a stroll around the beach can spark up the love between couples. Apart from the exotic outdoor experience to be enjoyed, it also has an elegant and stylishly furnished interior. This is the ideal love rendezvous destination for newly-weds finding the perfect love-garden that oozes luxury and romance. This resort can be found in Lagos State.

  1. LA CAMPAGNE TROPICANA BEACH RESORT
This resort is 60-acre beach resort located in Lagos State. It is a toast for dignitaries. It combines African-themed hospitality with modern luxury and is regarded as one of the best beach resorts in Nigeria.




  1. THE WHISPERING PALMS RESORT
This resort is located at Badagry, Lagos State, and is one of the best places for honeymoon chill. It possesses an art gallery, heritage room, indoor/outdoor gym, swimming pool, miniature golf, paddle boats, sports field and tennis courts. This is just the perfect place for newlyweds to spark up their love affair.

Share your thoughts on this and feel free to name other romantic honeymoon destinations you know about. Cheers


THE GROWTH MINDSET: TOP 20 SKILLS EVERY SUCCESS-DRIVEN YOUNG PROFESSIONAL PERSON NEEDS TO LEARN AND MASTER


In our fast-changing world, the need to learn and master skills cannot be underestimated. In fact, the impact of the information age on human life and existence demands that skills learning and mastery should be a priority and not an option for every young person who desires to be successful. Learning and developing skills in our present challenging environment is also an essential part of being able to navigate through the challenges of everyday life. The dramatic changes in global economies in recent years have been matched by mind-blowing transformation in technology. More so, both factors are contributing immensely to changes in the spheres of influence. In order to be able to cope with the increasing changes and pace of modern life, it is expedient for us to learn and master skills that will help us deal with whatever life throws at us.
I’ll be writing on 20 skills every success-driven young person needs to learn and master. But I’ll start with the first FIVE (5) in this article and will finish up the remaining in my subsequent articles on this subject. Let’s go
  1. SWIMMING SKILL
If as a young person you don’t know how to swim, then you need to seriously consider learning and mastering this skill. There are quite a lot of emergency situations and career opportunities that might demand you having swimming skill. It is also a survival skill needed when in a precarious situation that might just need you to demonstrate your survival instinct for either yourself or someone else.
  1. DRESSING SKILL
I’m sure many of us will smile while reading this one. But the truth is not everyone knows how to dress properly. Dressing has a loud voice that communicates different messages to people. In fact, it is a very important factor in personal branding. You must learn how to dress properly. Learn and master the skill of knowing the right clothes to wear for different occasions. Also, do well to understand the essence of color psychology in dress sense. Dress to be addressed appropriately and not just for the mere purpose of impressing people. Learn to be neat and tidy, be up-to-date on good fashion trends, be professional when needed and look classy even in your casuals and try to bring some personality into it. Remember, first impression matters because you might never have a second chance to create a good first impression.
  1. CULINARY SKILL
There is a general misconception that culinary skill is for the female gender. But the truth is that both sexes can learn and master the art of cooking. Some of the best chefs in the world today are from the bests of both worlds (male and female). Cooking skill can help you save a lot of cash from eating junks and spending much in restaurants. Being able to cook is a no-brainer because it is a good habit for healthy living. This could be a good business venture that can create another stream of income if you have the passion for it.
  1. EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION SKILL
No matter your career field, it is ideal for every success-driven young person to learn and master the art of effective communication. Learning and mastering how to express yourself in words, actions and writing forms could just be the magic wand you need to possess to make the quantum leap from mediocrity to true success. You can challenge yourself everyday to learn the art this skill intentionally and I bet you will experience tremendous changes in your life and also see positive results in your career.
  1. PERSONAL FINANCE MANAGEMENT SKILL
Human wants are insatiable and the need to live within our means is very essential if we are to enjoy true success in life. As a young person it is advisable to think carefully about all your expenditures and how to balance things up. Truth be told that luxuries are beautiful things to have, but of what use are they if after acquiring them you are left in a real financial mess? Don’t be a slave to funding a lifestyle that will not last and is detrimental to your financial health. Learn how to fix and manage a personal budget. Learn to live modestly, save up cash and also invest in things that will yield good returns.
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Monday, February 4, 2019

5 REASONS WHY AGE DOES NOT REALLY MATTER IN RELATIONSHIPS


When the issue of age is mentioned in relationship it often raises eyebrows. The judgements and criticisms of people can always be the loud voices a person could be scared of. So, there is every tendency for people to be scared when the age question pops up. But the truth is that while people’s opinions are often helpful, the onus will always be on you to make your choice of partner and also your decision to forge ahead with whoever you decide to date regardless of age.
Here are five (6) reasons why I feel age does not really matter in a relationship:
  1. MATURITY IS MORE IMPORTANT:
Age is not a real measure of a person’s responsiveness to the demands of relationship, maturity is. It is not their age, but their maturity in handling issues borne out of their understanding of what relationship is all about is what should matter. You can’t assume that a 40 year-old is more mature than a 25 year-old. The truth is that some younger people tend to show a level of maturity above their age that makes them look like grown-ups, while some older people act like little kids that this might want to make you want to question their sense of reasoning. Don’t date people because of their age, but because they are sensible, purposeful, values-oriented and possess strength of character to lead you aright.
  1. AGE DOESN’T SOLVE RELATIONSHIP ISSUES:
Some bitter truths are that age doesn’t pay bills or does it guarantee an offense-free relationship. Dating someone who is older or younger doesn’t mean your relationship will be all rosy, but the key is finding the person that compliments you. Someone you can understand and can also understand you as well. Someone that can communicate your love languages and also make you feel good about being in love and in relationship.
  1. COMMITMENT IS ABOUT MENTALITY NOT AGE:
Another reason age should not really matter in making your choice of partner in a relationship is the fact that it does not guarantee commitment. People don’t make commitment in relationships that eventually lead to marriage just because of age, but it is more of a mentality issue. A person at 25 can understand the essence of commitment better than a person at 40, and vice versa. So, the key is in weighing the motives, intentions and mentality of people who show interest in you in order to know the right person for your life.
Share your thoughts on this and look forward to the three remaining reasons.

THE MIDNIGHT VISITOR 3: THE DANGER THAT AROUSED FEAR


'(poon poon poon poon poon poon poooon....) Umu Amaobu...the silent gun of the hunter has killed its prey, we are all expected to be at the village square to hear from the chief priest', Uzor, the town crier shouted loud around the village like a dog on rampage. No wonder he was referred to as a trumpeter.
There was a blood bath the night before the summoning of the villagers as life was no like longer at ease. Both the young and old were dying mysteriously. It's been seven eke market days since the visit of the 'midnight visitor' and yet no clue to the strange events in the land. I still couldn't speak about anything I saw. I experienced an emptiness in my brain like an amnesia and often behaved like one struck with dementia. The more I tried to remember, the harder it seemed to recount what actually happened. Mama kept wondering why I couldn't say anything about it.
'We need to consult Ala', the omens are bad for our land. I see more deaths and mysterious things happening, the chief priest thundered with a loud voice. Fear gripped everyone and suddenly there was utter darkness in the land.
'Speak up our son...my child tell us'...the elders and mama urged me.
The more I tried to find my voice to speak, the more my sight became blur to see the message of the visitor. Soon blood began to gush out of my eyes as tears. The more the flow of tears, the more the people died. The whole village turned into a mourning ground as news of the death of the Royal House brought tears and fears. The truth was far from them, but in my heart and not yet time to be revealed. More tales of my silence and masked words greeted them.
'The child is cursed, bewitched and should be cast into the evil forest', said, Mazi Madu.
Mama was helpless and weak to speak for me. My tears were their blood of pain and anguish that caused countless deaths. Their lives knew no peace thereafter and I became their living hell. My eyes locked up suddenly, lips sealed, and the mystery of midnight visitor yet unrevealed.
To be continued…

HELD BOUND 3


Diana’s continuous silent treatment towards me was terrifying and killing. More to her demeanor was the fact that at intervals she would let out a loud sarcastic laugh to rile me up. But I was helpless. Our honeymoon period had turned into a funeral. The next morning as I woke up, I couldn’t find Diana anywhere around the house. This increased my fears, and I thought of running away but had this deep thought that it might just be one of her strange games to test my resolve to stay with her. I decide to let her have her way. After all, she has never hidden anything from me ever since we met. Her sudden disappearance might just be her way of letting me know that she was pissed off by secrecy about my family back home. Perhaps she needed space to clear her head and heal her heart of the hurts I caused her.

Three months on Diana was yet to return and this worried me greatly. Am I sure she’s actually human? Why did she decide to leave me in the dark about her whereabouts? Then in the midst of my clouded thoughts I got a call from an anonymous caller who told that my kids back home were dead. They were killed by an unknown person and there were no traces. Immediately I dropped the call in fear, and suddenly tears filled my eyes with my head bowed in my hands. As I made way to the living room to get a few of my belongings to go back home, I was left with a shocker – Diana was right in the living room lying on the bed. I froze in shock as she starred at me beaming with a cunning smile. It was then I realized I had bargained for more than what I could pay for and also I need to deal with the mystery killer of my children. What would I do?
To be continued...