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Saturday, May 2, 2020

SILENT WORDS


SILENT WORDS

A black dot on a white linen.
So many expressions like a chameleon.
That's how evil spreads like a virus.
Nemesis chasing after us in a rush
The truth remains untold 
And will be till we grow old

I have a purple dream to be President.
Aso rock will be my residence.
I'm afraid there'll always be a Judas.
Ask Hilter, Nostradmus and Jesus.
I won't trade my conscience for treasures.
I want to create a legacy.

Tale Of A Masochist


Tale Of A Masochist

Lights out, time out
Sleepless nights, endless hours
My pillow's sad story of a wet sorrowful night
Just no one can face my fight 
Cos no one understands my plight
Just only you could
Cos you're the reason I stood and could face the troop

Adele's someone like you on a repeat
So now I can reminisce
It was midnight at dawn
Your spirit was gone
Life became just a norm
No more heart fireworks 
Cos my hero has gone to be with the Lord...

Grey Thoughts


Grey Thoughts

Love memes in a story book.
Jack and Rose; the Titanic has got a Part 2.
Romeo and Juliet; our love appeared so true.
Our wedding hue didn't make me your baby boo.
Well our vows didn't mean anything to you.
You were a player and I fell for you gimmick too.

Halo, 
Can you hear my heartbeat play our love symphony?
No, you can't, pain and shame; Siamese twin born in harmony.
Betrayal and denial; the stings of promiscuity.
You took my breathe away, it’s hard to forget.
You brought foxes into my vine, and you caused me regret.

Now our hearts are faraway.
Cos you let our love go on a getaway.
Grease is slippery, but it won't give you an orgasm.
Between love and lust, there's a great chasm.
Roses are red, violets are blue, but they don't colour like the rainbow.
Just a reminder that no one's ever gonna love you like I do.

TEAR DROPS




TEAR DROPS
Bees without honey
Flowers without nectar
June without snowfall
Bread without butter
Summer without sunshine
A wedding without a bride
Without you baby, nothing else matters
I'm drowning in regret cos your tears pierced me deep causing me a fever
My heart misses you more than ever cos it can't love another
I promised to love you like no other
I made mistake to trade you for another
Like a fish I'm trapped with no choice but to surrender
Now I'm all alone reminiscing when we were together
Let's make it work baby, I don't want to be like this brother...

DON’T BLAME THE JUVENILE



DON’T BLAME THE JUVENILE
Hear the cry of a young girl who matures with age and discover changes to her body that she can’t explain. No one is willing to tell her the naked truth about puberty, sex and love. Her parents who she feels are supposed to be her friends paint pictures of what it is not. They keep telling her not to allow any man see her pant else she’ll get pregnant. She lives in this ignorance and eventually turns 18. 

The social media world paints it all black and white, and she gets even more confused. Then she became so loose, and had her first kiss with a guy who also has not been schooled on what taking responsibility is all about. They meet in secrets corners, lights-out and then in dark rooms where the eyes of the world cannot see them.

The young girl’s belly suffers a fever, and then later discovers she’s being put in the family way. The society screams and calls her all sorts of names for his misdeeds. Where were they when she wanted someone to teach her morality, sex education and purpose? They tell to go for an abortion because she’s too young to have a baby. Now, murder is the new order or peoples’ perverted idiosyncrasy.


The young man gets high on drugs and bails out because he can’t be a father now. No one told that what makes him a male is his penis, but what makes him a man is his ability to use his brain. He bails out of first real sight of responsibility. The society blames him for not using protection, and calls him a dog for not being able to control his sexual urge. Where were they when he needed someone to teach him about personal development, family life and responsibility?

Don’t blame, help them to become better.

Friday, May 1, 2020

3 FACTS EVERY SEXUALLY ACTIVE MAN SHOULD KNOW


3 FACTS EVERY SEXUALLY ACTIVE MAN SHOULD KNOW

We live in a world that is rapidly-changing, and the need for current information is very important. The obvious truth is that knowledge is a prerequisite to living a good life and should be sought after. When it comes to sexual education, most people tend to turn a blind eye to it and open discussions on it are easily dismissed.
The major problem of sexual education is that it is seen as forbidden aspect of life to talk about. Parents often beat around the bush when talking about it with their children. Our school systems have failed to place a priority on it, our religious institutions and government agencies are also numb about it. But the reality is that many people are suffering from lack of sexual education.
We’ll be sharing on three (3) facts every sexually man needs to know about to help him improve his physical and health condition.

1    1. ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION IS BECOMING RAMPANT AND NEEDS TO BE CHECKED
So many marriages and relationships have been destroyed as a result of Erectile Dysfunction. In fact, it has been revealed to be the most common sexual health problem affecting the quality of life of men of all ages. Statistics reveal that the total prevalence of erectile dysfunction is 56.9%. About 18 million men are reportedly affected in the United States. Approximately 15% of men are affected each year by this, and reports have it that 320 million men are likely to have affected by 2025. This is worrisome. Some of the major causes of this are: 
  • alcoholism
  • smoking, medications
  • stress
  • emotional distress
  • history of prostate cancer or enlarged prostate
  • Diabetes
  • Obesity
  • High blood pressure
  • Heart disease
The need to be more conscious of how we live our lives is very expedient.

2     2. MALE INFERTILITY IS A MAJOR CAUSE OF ONE THIRD OF INFERTILITY ISSUES WORLDWIDE
The general belief is that infertility is more pertinent to women than men, but more researches and reports by medical specialists have revealed that infertility in males have become a strong reason for couples inability to experience the joy of child-bearing. According to statistics about 15% of couples are infertile worldwide.
 The major causes of male infertility are: low sperm production, abnormal sperm function or blockages that prevent the delivery of sperm, chronic health problems, injuries, lifestyle choices, and several other factors.

You are advised to see a doctor when you notice the following:
  • Pain, discomfort or lump or swelling in the testicle area
  • Prostate, groin, penis, scrotum or testicle problems
  • Erection or ejaculation problems
  • Low sex drive

3    3. DIETING PLAYS A CRUCIAL ROLE IN A MAN’S SEXUAL LIFE
Men do a whole lot in order to keep fit and stay sexually active. They hit the gym for workouts and engage in a lot of aerobic exercises in order to improve physique. But many are ignorant or less concerned about healthy eating. Do you know that as much as food is good for our growth it can also be harmful too?

Here are some specific foods that have the potential to kill your sex drive:
  • Processed foods
  • Alcohol
  • Sugar
  • Canned food
  • Spicy foods
  • Colas, etc
Always remember that health is wealth, and eating healthy amounts to staying healthy and being sexually active.

Tuesday, October 22, 2019

WOUNDED


How did it come to this?
I never thought it would end like this
Tears rolling down my cheeks like a stream
Friends’ trying to console me, but it’s not so easy
Family trying to put things together, but nothing can be fixed
Why didn’t anyone tell me about this?
I don’t want to imagine what it is
 I don’t want to go through all of this
The hurt, the pain
How can I live without this?
A pregnancy that is frustrating
A lot on the inside and noting on the out, but lost in a world of limitations
I’m on fire
Fire on the outside
But my fire is going down
It feels like sunshine under a cover
It feels like being in no man’s land
It’s feels like it’s me against my world…  

Tuesday, September 3, 2019

FAITH AGAINST FATE


I've been through a million worries
I've survived over a million troubles
I've traveled over a million journeys
Just to find happiness let it eludes me
The clouds are dark over me
Love seems from me 
I'm just a kid with a broken heart 
I need a shoulder to lean so that I don't fall apart

I've been through tough times and seasons
I've been through pains without no reason
I didn't want things this way, but life has not been easy
I've been left forlorn just because I chose to love
I pray to live another day to survive the hurts
With so much uncertainty I'm living in wishful thoughts
But I know I'll win against all odds 

Let me play my symphonious medley
But the world won't hear me
I'm broken so are my strings without any remedy
Let me sing and dance to a brave new world
I can't because the songs sound like an elegy
Let me say goodbye cos it's already dusk
But there's hope cos there's always dawn after dusk

EMERGE!


As a Leadership Coach, I've been had several deep conversations with people who were really depressed, hopeless and helpless during my consultancy sessions. Most of them had actually given up on life before our meeting and were only a minute breathe away from ending their own lives. 

Their problems could be summarized in the usual category of being financial, emotional, educational, and psychological. Before I give them solutions to their problems, I usually ask them these two questions:

(1). What have you been living for?
(2). What do you want to still live for?

On countless occasions I see them going through sober reflections, and then into critical thinking. Perhaps they've never thought about life in my perspectives.

As it's often said: "Life will not give you what you deserve, but what you make a demand for."

I remember precisely in 2012 when I published my first book: 'A Difference Maker'. Prior to then, it was as though I wouldn't achieve my dream of being an author. I really wanted to make a positive difference in the lives of people. I wanted to give hope to the hopeless; help to the helpless; and faith to faithless. I wanted people to become difference makers in their spheres of influence.

But I had a huge challenge! Yes, I did

I didn't have the finance for the book publishing. But one thing kept me fighting on and today I'm still pushing on because of it. That's PURPOSE!

Purpose drove me into the street to seek financing for my book. Purpose keeps me awake at night everyday seeking ways to better myself. Purpose pushes me into building relationships that will propel for the journey. Purpose wakes me up from my sleep to fight to make every day count. Purpose is my personality, brand and influence.  


I really want people to become better in life. That's what I've been living for and what I'm still living for. I speak with people every day and make efforts to make them succeed. That's the passion that gave birth to my human-capital development company InspireForte Solutions. We just want to keep changing lives and building people as our slogan reads.

Everyone was created for and with a purpose!

Friends, as you journey through life ask yourself those questions again and surely, you'll find answers. But if you don't you can seek our consultancy service and be assured, you'll find THE REAL YOU that your world NEEDS to emerge.

Cheers!

EWO…


Waking up this morning to see my neighbour jostling up and down the place got me thinking that he had won a lottery. To my annoyance the reason for his happiness is that Tacha was not evicted on the popular BBNaija show. Na wa o… wonders will never end in this country. We celebrate things that obviously can’t add value to our lives. Like Tacha, even the good characteristics we should be looking out for and expect to see in people we call our role models we cannot see. The revolution Uncle Sowore (egbon don’t worry God is with you) is protesting for needs to actually start in our personal lives. After all, there is no forest without trees the same way there is no government without people.
Chai there is God o…so a group of people can come together to raise N60m to give to somebody that actually does nothing to get this huge sum of money. Sadly enough when it comes to educational competitions they will give the prize winner food stuffs as if the person complained of hunger and a paltry sum of N100k. What a wawu! See eh we need to fear God in this country (in Aunty Success’ voice). In fact if rapture needs to take place and Nigeria should be the first place.
Remember years back when one Uncle Eedris Abdulkareem sang Nigeria jagaja, and everybody thought that he have kolo. Even our ugliest President till date (no be talk am o) thought the same then too and banned the song. But now you see true true this country’s sense have off. In fact many are mad but few are roaming. How can Vigilante rescue Police from kidnappers ahhhh… our mumu don do because this “faji” no gel at all. I have finish transmitting my transmission my kwantri fipo, this is NIGERIA!(in Uncle Falz voice). Eh eh eh eh eh eh eh eh eh Ewo…!