5 REASONS WHY AGE DOES NOT REALLY MATTER IN RELATIONSHIPS
When
the issue of age is mentioned in relationship it often raises
eyebrows. The judgements and criticisms of people can always be the
loud voices a person could be scared of. So, there is every tendency
for people to be scared
when the age question pops up. But the truth is that while people’s
opinions are often helpful, the onus will always be on you to make
your choice of partner and also your decision to forge ahead with
whoever you decide to date regardless of age.
Here
are five (6)
reasons why I feel age does not really matter in a relationship:
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MATURITY IS MORE IMPORTANT:
Age
is not a real measure of a person’s responsiveness to the demands
of relationship, maturity is. It is not their age, but their maturity
in handling issues borne out of their understanding of what
relationship is all about is what should matter. You can’t assume
that a 40 year-old is more mature than a 25 year-old. The truth is
that some younger people tend to show a level of maturity above their
age that makes them look
like
grown-ups, while some older people act like little kids that this
might want to make you want to question their sense of reasoning.
Don’t date people because of their age, but because they are
sensible, purposeful, values-oriented and possess strength of
character to lead you aright.
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AGE DOESN’T SOLVE RELATIONSHIP ISSUES:
Some
bitter truths are that age doesn’t pay bills or does it guarantee
an offense-free
relationship. Dating someone who is older or younger doesn’t mean
your relationship will be all rosy, but the key is finding the person
that compliments you. Someone you can understand and can also
understand you as well. Someone that can communicate your love
languages and also make you feel good about being in love and in
relationship.
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COMMITMENT IS ABOUT MENTALITY NOT AGE:
Another
reason age should not really matter in making your choice of partner
in a relationship is the fact that it does not guarantee commitment.
People don’t make commitment in relationships that eventually lead
to marriage just because of age, but it is more of a mentality issue.
A person at 25 can understand the essence of commitment better than a
person at 40, and vice versa. So, the key is in weighing the motives,
intentions and mentality of people who show interest in you in order
to know the right person for your life.
Share
your thoughts on this and look forward to the
three remaining reasons.
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